What part of your not fucking listening to people not understand???

Why do people not listen. I just had someone blow their top at me for ruining a night they had apparenty organised for me.. now i was upset about a bout of upsetting and stressful circumstances .. i then organised plans with someone to which they cancelled then re-organised plans for somewhere i didn't wanna go too.. I was made to catch public transport there with no lift home.. yet i'm now getting told i ruined a night completely organised for me... Far out .. Fuck it .. I am a free agent if i went out with people i would stick with them.. but if im gonna go out by myself who am i really with???